Resources
A small, evolving list of what’s helped me grapple with sibling loss. While these made me personally feel seen and less alone, they may not be the content for you, and that’s okay. Explore and take only what will help your heart.
Books
Finding the Words by Colin Campbell: Recommended by a friend who lost her son, this is by far the most impactful grief book that I have read. The way that Campbell discusses profound loss helped me to discover the words for articulating my grief.
Always a Sibling by Annie Sklaver Orenstein: This is one of the few books out there specifically about sibling loss. If you have ever felt like a “forgotten mourner” as a sibling, this book will speak to you.
A Collection of William: A Collection of William speaks to the hearts of those who have experienced profound and traumatic loss. Told through multiple mediums that are masterfully interwoven, Stephany provides a typically unseen window into the experiences of grief and love. To vulnerably document her experiences in dire moments of despair and hope demonstrates a rare courage – a courage that serves to shine a gentle and knowing light on the lonely experience of losing a child. You will end this book feeling newly seen in your own grief and forever changed by William Christopher.
Websites
William’s Playlist Blog: This blog is a companion to A Collection of William.
Organizations
William’s Wardrobe: William’s Wardrobe is a nonprofit that, among other things, helps provide resources to families who have had to say goodbye to their heart babies.
Oligo Nation: Oligo Nation is the only organization specifically focused on research on oligodendroglioma, the type of cancer my brother had. If you found your way here because you have a family member living with or who died with oligodendroglioma, I encourage you to explore this site.
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